Heal NarcissismReviews of recovering-narcissist.com

When I first met Jordan I didn’t realize how bad my narcissism was messing up my life. I just knew I kept ruining relationships, hiding behind lies, chasing approval, and never feeling good enough. I thought I was smart enough to figure it out on my own, but the truth is I was blind to so much of it. Jordan helped me see myself for real. He showed me where I was avoiding the truth, but not in a way that made me shut down. He pushed me, but he also made me feel safe enough to be honest for the first time in my life. That’s when I started to see the shame underneath everything—how much it was controlling me, making me act like someone I wasn’t. Finally understanding my shame has been huge for me. This work is brutal sometimes. It hurts to admit the things I’ve done and the person I was pretending to be. But Jordan doesn’t let me run away from it. He doesn’t sugarcoat. And weirdly, that’s exactly what I needed—someone who could cut through my bullshit but still believe I could change. Since working with him I feel more real, more human. Life feels more vibrant. I’m learning to drop the masks, stop trying to control everything, and actually love and accept myself. I’ve still got a long way to go, but I know I’m on the right path. If you’re struggling with narcissism, or shame, or just feel lost in yourself—Jordan has tools to help you face yourself. And if you’re willing to do that, it can change everything.

Jordan’s approach was unlike anything I’d experienced: direct yet compassionate, unflinchingly honest yet deeply human. He is truly one of a kind. Before working with Jordan, I was living behind layers of self-protection I didn’t even realize were there. I first found him through his raw, honest, and deeply vulnerable posts. Something in the way he told the truth—without shame and his ability to share his shame and hold space for it, without sugarcoating—made me feel both seen and safe enough to admit something I had quietly wondered for a long time: that I might be a narcissist. I went into his program with one decision: whatever he told me to do, I would do. I was tired of circling the same patterns—controlling, performing, hiding behind confidence I didn’t truly feel. Underneath it all was shame I had never dared to name, distrust I didn’t know how to let go of, and a longing for connection I couldn’t quite reach. Jordan helped me uncover what had been buried for years. Through his guidance, I began to see the difference between controlling and connecting, between appearing confident and actually feeling safe enough to be vulnerable. He didn’t just talk about empathy—he showed me how to live it. He helped me find the courage to sit in silence without filling it, to feel emotions in my body without running from them, and to open my heart without needing to orchestrate the outcome. In the process, shame began to soften into trust. Walls I had built for protection began to come down, and underneath them I found a capacity for vulnerability I truly didn’t think was possible for me. I discovered that empathy isn’t something you give from a distance or check off like a check list—it’s something you share up close often in quite spaces. And I learned that love, real love, can only grow where there is openness, honesty, and presence. It wouldn’t feel right not to acknowledge the thoughtful intention behind his program itself. The layout, structure, and organization were clear and deeply considered. The intentional journal prompts met me right where I was, guiding me deeper each day without overwhelming me. The daily lesson videos, readings and content were concise yet powerful—each one delivering just enough insight to shift something inside me while leaving space for my own reflection. Every detail felt purposeful, and that design made it easier for me to stay consistent and truly engage with the work. I felt deeply supported and guided, truly seen and understood—never pressured, and never like any part of the work was meaningless. Every step had purpose. Looking back, I hardly recognize the person I was when I started. I came in ready to follow instructions, but I’m leaving with something much deeper—a life led by trust instead of fear, vulnerability instead of performance, empathy instead of control, and a love that feels real because it’s no longer hidden.

As the loved one of a narcissist, I have watched my girlfriend transform in to a completely different person over the last couple months. Jordan’s outstanding organization of the lessons has made the entire program very easy to navigate and the intentional structure of the lessons made it feel like a natural process for my girlfriend. While focusing on the healing of the narcissist, he also incorporates ways for loved ones to begin their healing as well. As my girlfriend nears the end of the program, we have started having more conversations that would have never been possible for us. For the first time in our relationship of a year and a half, I feel like I have partner.

I awoke to my narcissism and found there was a lack of helpful resources available to help me heal. That’s until I stumbled upon Jordan’s program. His program didn’t shame me from the get go, like all other resources I had found. This was critical for me. By passing shame, it allowed me to actually lay down my defenses to look deep within myself and roll up my sleeves to do the hard work needed to heal. This fact my friends- the non-shaming part- showed me that Jordan is one of the only one’s helping narcissists today who actually gets the mechanics of narcissism. This program gets to the heart of narcissism quickly, and follows a step by step path that, although isn’t easy, truly transforms. Today, after finishing the program- I can take accountability, I can be empathic, and I continue working on feeling safe enough to be authentically me without using subtle manipulation to get my needs met. I understand myself, the process of how and why I developed narcissistic defenses, I understand when they get triggered, and I have tools to lay down the defenses. Listen, the work isn’t easy, but if you’re tired of wreaking havoc in your relationships- give this program a try. You won’t regret it. Don’t believe what the internet says. You’re not a monster. And healing is possible ❤️.

The experience was very eye opening! I woukd recommend this to everyone who is or has known a narcisissit in thier lives, it was very informative and structured in a way that kept you intrigued and educated. Jordan is the only person in this space that can break it down in a way that is easily digestible and for that I want to thank him! Highly recommended!

Working with Jordan has honestly been a transformative metamorphosis for me as a person. When I first met him, I was in the roughest spot of my life. Everything had come crashing down, mentally, emotionally, spiritually. I had severe thoughts, had attempted to self-harm a number of times, and even ended up in hospital. I’d already explored the standard mental health system including seeing five psychologists (some with PhDs), a psychiatrist. None of them gave me anything beyond the usual surface-level advice. Nothing helped and it felt like I was drowning in shame and darkness. I started researching narcissism, trying to understand what was wrong with me. However, everything I found online made me feel like I was some kind of irredeemable monster and my diagnosis was a death sentence. One night while scrolling TikTok, I stumbled across Jordan. He was talking about how healing had "unlocked machinery in his heart" and I honestly thought he was just another hippie guy. He sparked my interest though and I watched his YouTube videos. Something was different about Jordan, he spoke about narcissism in a way that actually humanised it rather than shame it. I still doubted it but I was desperate and I reached out to and we had an emergency session. That session has radically changed my life. Since then, we’ve been working together almost every week. Each session had structure where we’d explore a specific topic, reflect on concurrent life events, and I’d get homework that actually pushed me to grow. We went deep into my childhood and I started to understand that my narcissistic traits weren’t some evil core but rather they were the result of being raised by narcissists, by people who failed to meet my emotional needs. I learned that I had built masks not to deceive, but to survive. I started to work towards forgiving myself and others. Finally, I started returning to who I actually am underneath all the pain, and build my internal flame. The changes have been real and has been commended by my partner, family and friends. I feel like I radiate a devotional love that I never had before. I’ve come a long way from where I was and it was tough. It broke me open and I genuinely feel that my heart is exposed in an indescribable way. But it brought me peace I never thought I’d feel. One verse I keep coming back to is Luke 17:21, “The Kingdom of God is within you.” That quote makes perfect sense to me now. It demonstrates that divine presence are accessible through introspection and personal growth. Through Jordan’s course, I’ve started to access that inner space that was buried beneath unhealed trauma and survival. I’ve stopped seeing all the psychologists and psychiatrists. Jordan is more than a coach for me. He’s a mentor, a guide, and someone I genuinely trust with my healing. I know this is thrown around lightly nowadays, but this work saved my life. I hope to continue with Jordan for a long time to come.

Before this program, I lived behind a wall of defensiveness, anger, and control. I couldn’t take criticism without shutting down or lashing out. My relationships were suffering — especially my marriage. I had an affair, and the guilt and shame nearly destroyed me. I felt hopeless, convinced I was broken beyond repair. This program gave me the structure, tools, and support to face myself honestly — maybe for the first time. I began to understand the root of my defensiveness and learned to slow down and feel the impact of my actions on the people I love. I stopped hiding behind blame and started practicing empathy — real, painful, humbling empathy. One of the biggest shifts came when I sat with my wife, opened my heart, and felt her pain without trying to fix it or run from it. I cried with her — not out of shame, but because I finally got it. That moment changed everything. I’m not the same man I was. I’m learning to respond instead of react, to be honest even when it’s uncomfortable, and to repair what I broke with consistency and humility. I used to believe healing wasn’t possible for someone like me. Now I know it is — because I’m living it. If you’re scared to start, that’s okay. I was too. But if you stay with it and do the work, this program will change your life.

I love linking Jordan's content to my friends because it fills an incredibly important niche: There is very little content online with truthful and compassionate information on pathological narcissism and even less content that is actually instructive for people who are trying to heal their pathological narcissism. Even those friends of mine who have access to therapy are still starved for actionable step-by-step guides to overcome their maladaptive defenses and develop more self-compassion, self-esteem, and empathy. Jordan provides a uniquely scalable service to all of them.