People Media Inc.Reviews of ourtime.com

Even when i stopped the subscription it send me messages that i have missed a payment, and wants me to login again, most likely to start the subscription again which i have read from others. SCAM Warning - Do not use!

After a couple months I have concluded Ourtime.com is pretty much a scam site with the odd real person. Scammer profiles try to get information from you and if you ask a pointed question, poof the profile is deleted. Added charges without authorization. A lot of fake and/or deleted profiles being used. My fellow seniors please just stay away from this one.

I have had several bad experiences on this dating site. It is full of scammers. I met a scammer in 2018 and, unfortunately fell for the scam which put me in financial hardship to this day. This is very common. Quite a lot of people get scammed on dating sites and it has gotten worse from what I have read. This site is also visited by sociopaths. I met one back in 2019 who was very disturbing. I categorize him as a sexual predator. He duped me as well. I filed charges against him last year but did not get anywhere as he hides his identity. He never gave me any information about himself. Only that his name is Carlos. He is 5 feet 7 inches and was not 58 when I met him. He is slender about 135 to 150 pounds. A Hispanic man. Very deceiving and a pathological liar. Only interested in sex. I kept his text messages and gave them to the police when I filed the complaint against him. I realized afterwards when he blocked me back in November 2020 what is really is. I did my research. He fits the sociopathic traits. I should of paid attention more to the red flags. Even while I chatted with him on OurTime sex as prevalent with him. I did meet him and and was at my home which was a mistake. I was fortunate not to go to bed with him as it would of been more of a horrible experience. He showed signs of anger. He lied to me about wanting a relationship. I’m not going into graphics details but he used force and manipulation to get sex. That was when I decided to file charges. This is disturbing to me. Enough is enough. I’m seeking therapy after this ordeal and the scamming ordeal to help myself and find out why I put myself in these situations. I am writing this to whomever reads it to please be cautious and aware of someone’s true intentions. To trust your instinct if it doesn’t seem right than there is a reason. My experiences have brought me awareness. I don’t know any to let this stop me from finding a good partner. There is someone good out there. I hope these dating services start a criminal background check. This could help deter these fake scammers and sick disturbed people who no doubt have a criminal record. God bless and be safe. Also I wanted to mention that when I reported this person to OurTime I was only given three months free membership and ‘thanks’ for the report. Not good. Dating sites should be doing more as sexual assault is a crime. When I filed charges against this person last May with my local police department I asked if they would contact OurTime. I was told by your he detective handling my case that a warrant would be needed and they have not enough information on the assailant. I could only give what I had. The perpetrator did not divulge hardly anything about himself when I was communicating with him. I did save my text messages but his prepaid phone (another thing I didn’t know until I did a reverse lookup) that I am either blocked (which he did back in November 2020) or the phone is disconnected. I felt defeated and I hate to think what he has done to other women. I still part I can find something out one day and that this person is stopped from what he is doing.

This site is a joke! Take heed to these reviews before you pay. Thankfully, I only paid for a month at only $14. I will be cancelling before my time is up. Yeah, it's a complete waste of time. You get lots of views, likes, messages before you pay, then it all stops. Occasionally, you'll get a couple random fake hellos. If you receive a message, but it doesn't show that they viewed your profile...there's your sign. Best to stay clear of this sh*thole site. :)

Terrible site! Buyer Beware! Quick to take your money and offer extremely poor, ignorant Customer Service. Very unethical site! Save your money! You will quickly regret joining.

Gives you tons of fake views and likes to get you paying for membership then views and likes count drops like a rock and the place is dead. It also has auto renew charges if you don't find the way to stop it. Wasted money and time, not to mention the scammers.