No More DesireReviews of nomoredesire.com

I had already been pursuing recovery on my own through personal research and self-work when I was introduced to the No More Desire program. Right away, his approach resonated deeply with what I was learning about addiction and what I had been experiencing firsthand. Jake helped elevate my recovery to the next level, giving me a strong and sustainable foundation for long-term sobriety. The program gave me a complete view of what drives addiction — not just the surface symptoms — and provided clear categories and lifelong tools that support me not only in recovery, but in every area of life. What makes No More Desire truly unique is its multifaceted approach. Jake recognizes that you are a whole person, and lasting recovery requires addressing every aspect of who you are and how each part influences both addiction and healing. One of the most valuable elements for me has been the one-on-one coaching sessions. It was refreshing to have someone who genuinely understands what I’m walking through — someone I could be honest and vulnerable with. Jake has walked this path himself, and he practices what he teaches. He isn’t stagnant either — he continues to grow, refine, and improve his program to help men who are ready for deep and lasting transformation. The investment of time, money, and effort has been more than worth it — not just for me, but for my family as well. For the first time, I feel a real sense of freedom from addiction. It’s like a huge burden has finally been lifted. Thank you, Jake, for taking your own recovery and turning it into a life-changing program that helps other men break free and reclaim their lives.

I struggled for very many years with my addiction, but I have now been sober for six months. Over those many years, I made many attempts to overcome my addiction using only willpower, but those attempts all eventually resulted in relapse. Therefore, when I most recently resolved to break my addiction, I decided to also work with Jake. Starting with my very first one-on-one meeting with him, Jake made me feel comfortable and at ease. With compassion, Jake helped me understand the roots of my addiction, and recognize that my addiction was actually a reflection of my core inner goodness. He provided tools and techniques that help one not only achieve and maintain sobriety, but to also become the best version of themselves. Jake also taught the important role that belief in a Higher Power can play in overcoming addiction, which strongly resonated with me.

I had multiple instense filters, accountability partners, etc. but in the end, nothing worked. I always felt as though without the filters I was garaunteed to relapse because in the end of the day, it was the same old me. I realized that I needed something deeper but I was not sure what that was or how to get it. When I first stumbled onto the No More Desire program I knew that I had found what I was looking for. Through Jake’s brilliant program and incredible coaching, he slowly and systematically changes how you relate to your cravings, your daily challenges, and ultimately yourself. I’ve been to therapy before for my addiction and nothing came close to the level of intensive wrap around care that you get from Jake! I would strongly recommend!!

I’ve been sober for 8 months now. This was my first attempt with anyone or any program, and I’m so grateful I chose No More Desire. Learning about myself and self acceptance is the best thing I got out of this program. Working 1 on 1 with Jake helped me tremendously. I was able to express what I was going through and he could relate while helping me understand what was really beneath the surface. I would highly recommend Jake as a coach, especially if you have a hard time with your emotions and self judgment. Thank you Jake for all you have helped me with."

Finding his program felt like an answer to prayers. Not just for guidance, but for someone who truly sees you. From day one, it became clear I hadn’t just signed up for coaching. I had found a brother, someone who listened without judgment, who gently called out what needed work, and who constantly pointed me toward self-compassion and purposeful growth. Jake has an incredible gift: he sees straight to the heart of the issue and knows how to speak truth in a way that empowers rather than shames. Every session left me feeling lighter, braver, and more hopeful. Today, I’m approaching a full year of sobriety (one day at a time) and I can honestly say I wouldn’t be here without him. I wish every man who feels lost or stuck could experience what I did. Jake doesn’t just coach, he walks with you until you can walk on your own.

Here is my testimonial I have had the privilege of working with Jake and having had the addiction for over 30 years I was running out of hope and believe me I tried everything . I had lost everything and more importantly I had lost hope Jake through his skill and guidance gently steered me in the right direction and the new habits that I was starting to form suddenly transformed into a new life for me Thank you Jake and I am so glad I found you Kim F

Before No More Desire, my methods of sheer willpower consistently failed. My relationship was on the brink of collapse from the betrayal and corrosion of trust. Jake helped me realize how both my lifestyle choices and deep emotional conflicts were feeding my addiction. With the knowledge that Jake offered, I was able to make the changes in my life that brought me more peace, purpose, and joy. This in turn has put me in the position to conquer my battles each day and continuously put myself on the path away from lust to a life of fulfillment. Jake is an absolute joy to work with, and is able to break down complex feelings into digestible parts. You can feel that his understanding of the turbulent emotions of porn addiction comes from a place of deep personal understanding. Jake always has the words you need to hear, and will feel more like a warm friend who is fully invested in you success than anything else.

Before No More Desire, I tried to fight with willpower alone and failed repeatedly. This was the first structured program I joined, and it’s been life-changing. What makes it stand out is how Jake goes deep, helping you uncover the emotions driving your actions, like shame, fear, or grief. That emotional awareness alone has helped me grow. One thing that really made me buy in was how Jake emphasizes the spiritual side of recovery. As someone who believes in Jesus Christ, realizing that I can’t do this without God at the center was huge. Knowing I have a coach who supports me spiritually makes all the difference. I’ve learned that every action I take either feeds sobriety or addiction. This program taught me to sit with my emotions, lead my thoughts, and build routines around fitness, nutrition, and mental health. I’m showing up more in life, not isolating, and people around me see the difference.