The material is really bad, talks about using green screens to fake your tinder photos, lie about allowances to sugar babies, and showing photos of your chunk to girls? It's so bad.
Response from johnanthonylifestyle.comMay 12, 2026
This is all false. The person making this post is the head of marketing for a major dating company competitor. So he has an agenda. I just won a big defamation lawsuit in Florida court in July of 2025 for these types of defamatory claims. The jury awarded me big damages from false statements of fact such as the ones in this post. I have the most proof of client results in the entire industry on our testimonials page.
https://go.johnanthonylifestyle.com/testimonials
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Divan S.
Fake being a DJ & offer women money? What?
This program is straight up weird and dishonest. It teaches you to lie to women, including pretending to be a DJ, inflating your status, and promising things you never plan to deliver. One of the most uncomfortable parts was being told to dangle a monthly allowance to get women interested, while openly admitting it’s just a lie to get in the door. That alone says everything.
Nothing about this felt like real confidence, attraction, or healthy dating. It’s manipulation dressed up as self improvement. The whole thing is about deception, ego, and getting women back to your place by any means, not genuine connection or consent.
Add the constant drama,
Response from johnanthonylifestyle.comMay 12, 2026
None of this is true. I do not teach anything about lying, manipulation, or promising girls money. I just won a big defamation lawsuit in Florida Court in July 2025 for classic defamatory narratives like these. False statements of fact, nothing more.
I have the most proof of client results in the entire industry on our testimonials page.
https://go.johnanthonylifestyle.com/testimonials
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Garcia H.
Courses are 10+ year old
Courses are 10+ year old, very low quality. The coach was recently banned from YouTube for making more videos talking bad about people.
Threatened to sue me for disagreeing with him
Response from johnanthonylifestyle.comMay 12, 2026
This is absolutely false. We keep the course content up to date every year and everything is up to date for 2026. My YouTube channel was up for 9 years and I made over 4,000 videos. Competitors that I exposed for running scam operations did a publicly organized mass report against the channel to silence my criticisms. I am working with a law firm to make a case against YouTube for wrongful termination and all the evidence is on my side. I am currently posting daily videos now on Rumble in the meantime.
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Anonymous
John Scammed Me Out Of $500
I was completely and utterly ripped off by him and have talked to multiple other people who have had the same experience.
Response from johnanthonylifestyle.comMay 12, 2026
We have not scammed or ripped off anyone. This is obviously left by a competitor/enemy and you can see the post was made by "Anonymous".
We have more proof of results for clients than the rest of the industry combined. You can see for yourself here:
https://go.johnanthonylifestyle.com/testimonials
We've helped thousands of men find their dream girlfriend or wife, or just get many more high quality dating options very easily and quickly.
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Cliff
Priceless Experience
I had an amazing experience with John Anthony Lifestyle’s Platinum Dating Service. In addition to the well-structured online course, the amount of personal time you get with John and his coaches is truly priceless. The tailored, one-on-one feedback helps identify and fix bottlenecks in your dating game quickly and effectively. Their expertise allows them to pinpoint issues and provide the right solutions almost instantly. You’ll be learning directly from masters of the craft, which fast-tracks your growth and sets you up for dating success!
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John B.
He is a liar.
He is a liar.
Response from johnanthonylifestyle.comMay 12, 2026
Baseless. I am the most well-respected dating coach in the entire manosphere.
I have the most proof of client results in the entire industry on our testimonials page.
https://go.johnanthonylifestyle.com/testimonials
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Tom R.
My Life-Changing Experience with John & His Team’s Coaching – Highly Recommend!
I don’t usually write reviews, but John’s coaching programs have been such a game-changer for my dating life that I had to share my experience. If you’re on the fence about working with his team, here’s why I think you should take the leap.
John isn’t your typical “natural” who’s always had it easy with women. He’s openly shared that he was once shy, introverted, and completely clueless about dating—just like many of us starting out. His own struggles shaped his coaching, making it relatable and grounded. He gets what it’s like to feel lost or stuck, which is exactly why his system works, even for beginners.
What stands out the most is that John’s systems approach to dating isn’t about using gimmicks or tricks. It’s about building genuine confidence, honing your emotional intelligence, and connecting with women authentically. His coaching is all about becoming the best version of yourself, rather than pretending to be someone you’re not.
The results? It’s honestly like night and day. And this was a whiiiiile back (12+ months ago). Trustpilot only lets me date the experience up to 12 month back, only. I went from feeling nervous about starting conversations with women to forming meaningful, genuine connections. I even felt more comfortable navigating relationships in a natural, fulfilling way. I also got to see John in action during nights out in Miami—this guy is the real deal. He was effortlessly connecting with women at every venue we hit. His coaches, Josh and Conor, were equally impressive, pulling off the same results.
The bootcamp was incredible. I did half of the regular one (before the immersion program) in a major U.S. city with another coach on his team. Since then, I’ve been able to go out consistently and land dates with amazing women. John’s online dating strategies are practical and effective—his sequences and principles make it almost too easy to meet new women and set up dates.
A couple of things to keep in mind: you have to put in some effort. Aim for at least 10 new phone numbers a week and follow up to confirm dates. Communication is key. You have to be connecting with enough women (online/in-person). This ensures you have enough women interested to land at least one date a week. Also, if you’re looking to improve your online dating, his team picks your best photos that would get the most matches.
John’s system works for all kinds of guys. During the Miami Immersion, I saw men who weren’t in perfect shape nor super tall still succeed. His coaching focuses on confidence and authenticity—teaching you how to communicate your true self in a way that resonates with women and sparks real chemistry.
The system is also designed to guide you, step-by-step, through every interaction—from saying “hi” to suggesting a date and knowing exactly what to do on that first date to make it a fun, memorable experience. Whether you’re out at night or during the day, you’ll learn exactly what to say and how to follow up effectively. John makes it simple—his approach takes all the guesswork out of the equation, so you know how to transition from conversation to setting up that first date, what to say to confirm it, and how to keep the vibe flowing smoothly once you’re there. Everything is laid out clearly, and it’s designed for real-life success—so you can easily follow the steps to succeed.
Some reviews mention issues with customer service or the Platinum Dating System. I can’t speak to those experiences, but personally I’ve had no issues with customer service and have used both the PDS and online dating programs without feeling any pressure. Specifically, if mastering cold approaches is your goal, I’d recommend starting with the 8-week program, followed by a bootcamp in a major city. The instruction is top-notch, delivered by experienced coaches who genuinely want to see you succeed. The 8-week program provides a solid foundation to build on. However, in my experience, getting live feedback is incredibly valuable—it helps you identify areas you may not even realize need improvement and allows you to see experienced coaches demonstrate effective techniques in real time.
One last thing: you need to have some self-awareness about where you’re stuck in the dating process. Actively ask questions, get feedback, and be open to improvement. You can’t expect results without putting in some effort. This is a skill you’re learning, so you need to put in the reps, get feedback, and make improvements.
And just to clarify—I didn’t get paid to write this review. This is my genuine opinion.
If you’re struggling with dating and wondering if there’s hope, trust me—John & his team of expert coaches can help. His system works, and he’s a coach who truly cares.
Follow his guidance, put in the work, and you’ll see results :)
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Praise G.
The best dating program on the market
The best dating program on the market, and will be for the foreseeable future. I hit my dating goals of 5 high quality dates per week, with options left over. No matter what your goals are the experts on the program will get you there fast