It's Just LunchReviews of itsjustlunch.com

Few dates.After a few months, I only got two dates. One lived 100 miles from me! Neither of them were women that I wished to continue to see. Later I was offered a "special" upgraded service with more attention to finding dates for me. For $7500. I accepted but quickly changed my mind. But.....it was too late.I had already consented to the program and signed by internet to accept. Cant get my money back. Even though I had already spent $4300 for the original service! Beware!

Terrible experience. Matchmaker literally is not doing their job. Four months and only one date. There is a strict no refund policy. $5,000 wasted. Update: The reply from IJL says I have had 5 dates. This is fales. I have just completed my 2nd date. There were 3 other matches so maybe that is what they are counting. But 5 matches and 2 dates in 4.5 months is not acceptable. At that pace it would take 4.5 years to complete my 1 year / 24 date membership.

My matchmaker at first was empathetic about my concerns of cost because I had to pay 4 figures up front. Later after a slee of almost entirely first dates, she proposed I pay for the dates entirely to get more of their socalled "high quality women" to get more second dates, after the only criticism I could get from their dating coach was edits to my dating apps. So everything is about money with them. Not to mention just because you're paying a match maker, doesn't mean the women aren't following a delusional princess fairytale mentality with unrealistic expectations. Since every single person of staff was female, the whole operation seems biased towards women based off my experience. For 4 figures every 6 months, all I got was more first dates that led to nowhere, and a second date that was a 1 night stand. You're better off spending this money on dating apps.

My match maker was great she listened and was helpful. The problem is ladies this service will trick you out of thousands with very few quality matches. The guy they matched me with was a total joke showed up almost an hour later. He arrived with a back pack. I stayed since I was there to actually have lunch. He called me a month later to ask for a 2nd date I politely declined. Don’t use this company unless you want to be disappointed. They don’t offer refunds either.

Don't do this! If you want personalized matchmaking, find a different service. This is not personalized - it's a database of people willing to pay the high fees and then every 4 weeks, they'll send you someone also due for a date. They claim to be very selective, but as long as you can pay the initial fee, you're in. Every profile will sound like prince charming, yet profiles are what many aspire to be, not who they actually are and what they actually like to do. I questioned on more than 1 occasion if this was a reality TV show to see how far a guy can push a woman with outrageous comments before they reveal the cameras. This is expensive and I was hopeful to meet quality guys and in nearly 2 years, there was 2 men I was excited to go out with again. Neither followed up despite their supposed interest in meeting again. There is also no real thought to where they send you. Some of the locations are loud sports bars where you can barely hear each other. Another one sent me to a Benihanas, where the 6 other strangers at the table chuckled as we clearly introduced ourselves awkwardly. There are plenty of other matchmaking services out there. Go with one that is local or has proven results.

I signed up for it’s just lunch in 2023. Since then, I’ve only been on 4 dates, only 2 of which wound up with an actual date (one was a now show and one decided not to proceed). The matchmakers have “found” dates for me, but somehow each one mysteriously “goes in a different direction”. I feel like this is a procrastination tactic. I have not heard from my match maker since 08/01/2025!!! Almost 4 months! I asked for my money back, but unfortunately I am at their mercy. Don’t waste your money or your time. Kathy G

I joined IJL April of 2025. I started out talking to Heather one of the matchmaker s. Heather was really good at talking and getting me all pumped up about these quality dates I was going to have. As a matter of fact she was so good that she had me signing a contract and took my $2800 before I could even think what I was getting myself into. Heather said I would get 8 dates in 8 months. I've had four dates and none of the men were of the qualities that I stressed I was looking for in my interview. They don't know anymore about matchmaking then I do. The communication is terrible. No one calls you back because they don't even have dates to send you on. The Nashville pool is just not there. They take your money knowing this and send you on dates that don't even match just to get your dates in. I spoke with Mike E the director of marketing on the phone for 45 minutes about my complaints and all he did was try and say things that did not happen. He tried to make it seem like it was all my fault. Never once did he offer a solution to the problem or apologize. It is now approaching the end of November and come December I should have been on 8 dates. I have at least three to four left. I have not heard a word from IJL since the director and I spoke in October 2025. Don't even try to get any type of refund because it is impossible. I feel they scammed me and I would never recommend them to anyone. Stay away. Don't waste your money!!

Constantly match me up with matches that don't fit the guidelines of what I was interested in when I signed up. All this "mis matches" count toward the number of matches they guarantee. Before you sign up ask them how many daters are in their system. Basically it's almost none but they won't tell you they have don't have enough clients and diversity for it to work well. Response to their reply : When I signed up they had no issue taking my money, and they never mentioned my criteria would be an issue. If they can't deliver on what they promise they shouldn't take the client or they shouldn't make promises they can't keep, or they could give a full or partial refund. They will say whatever they can to get you on board and then once you sign the contract it's too late.