Gail B.
The Dating World Today…
I was on Fitness Singles years ago and resumed in Jan 2026. It's been different. The "Search" tab renders 102 pages with each page consisting of about 30 profiles. I have gone through 53 pages (1590 profiles) and consistently see: "Last visit: over 3 weeks". I have to wonder whether these profiles are old accounts. The site does not honour my age parameters in presenting matches. PROFILERS ON THIS SITE: A majority of the 60 yr old males have age preference parameters of 30-50 with some 18-40. It's discouraging/sickening to think males are willing to date their daughter's age or younger. A majority of the males don't read profiles and select by pictures alone. Most profilers reach out by suggested text (low effort). A majority of the males have answered "good-looking" in the appearance field. A majority of males have answered "athletic" in their body type field when pictures and activity/interests prove otherwise. A majority of profilers post only 1 picture. RECOMMENDATIONS TO FITNESS SINGLES: 1) mandate 2 pictures: 1 head shot, 1 full body shot all pictures clear & without sunglasses with the suggestion of no hats 2) follow profile parameters when presenting matches 3) set the age preference parameter frame to a 10 year maximum spread 4) add a relationship intention question: casual or long-term 5) remove "Top 25" feature and concentrate on good matches vs popularity or high activity.


