Adam Lane SmithReviews of adamlanesmith.com

I began this journey unregulated, surviving on autopilot and unable to articulate my emotions. I complete it feeling more grounded, regulated, and joyful than ever. Alyssa, thank you from the bottom of my heart for demystifying and destigmatizing what it means to be loud disorganized. Being labeled in this way can feel overwhelming and shameful, yet you presented the information with such compassion and HOPE that it felt far less intimidating. Through your guidance, I learned to communicate my needs more effectively—with myself, within my marriage, and across my relationships. This growth has strengthened my connections and has transformed the way I show up for my children. Although the learning process was challenging, I feel deeply proud of the seeds of change taking root within me and within my growing family. I can envision no greater mission for my life than to be a secure mother raising strong, secure children. Thank you Adam, Alyssa and the entire team for your unwavering dedication! I pray for your continued success and ability to change the world one remade secure attachment at a time!!

Alyssa changed my life and saved my marriage. My husband and I were on the brink of giving up, and this was a last ditch hail-Mary attempt at fixing things. I didn’t think it could be possible to change our dynamic so quickly, but what an incredible difference it has made!!! Our marriage is happy, we both communicate securely now, and our differences now make us stronger instead of tearing us apart! Thank God for Adam and his team. If you’re ready to change, this is the place to be.

I am truly grateful that I gave this a try. I was skeptical at first, but what I learned about Adam through the Lila Rose podcast prompted me to dig deeper—and I’m so glad I did. Working with Alyssa was an incredible experience. She is knowledgeable, wise, empathetic, and refreshingly straightforward. She offers clear explanations and practical solutions, always making sure you understand the why so real breakthroughs can happen. This has been a life-changing experience. It has given me tools not only to strengthen my marriage, but also to deepen my relationships with my children, all of whom come from the foster care system and carry significant attachment wounds. Truly, thank you. I hope and pray that your mission to bring this knowledge to others continues to break barriers and helps us become a more balanced, self-aware, and authentically grounded generation, living life in accordance to what we were designed to be.

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Alyssa was such a highly skilled an amazing coach! She was very easy to open up to. She understood the issues and their complexities. Helped me navigate the most challenging relationship I’ve ever experienced. I couldn’t have done it without her! I’d hire her again in a heartbeat!

As a mental health professional, I am impressed with how clearly Adam Lane Smith teaches about attachment repair. His work is based on strong research, explaining difficult ideas in a way that is easy to understand. Adam is also an excellent teacher. His entire team is well prepared to help others find a better life by healing attachment issues. I worked with Jeremy, one of his coaches, who helped me work through deep, long-term attachment patterns, teaching me how to let go of old habits and build healthier ones. I was in the Attachment Repair Program for 3 months. The course is organized in a clear, step-by-step way and each lesson builds on the one before it. This made it easier for me to understand how my specific attachment patterns formed and how to change them. Instead of giving only theory, the program showed me how to use the skills in all my relationships! I stayed actively engaged in this process and my life changed in a way I wasn’t expecting. I now have renewed hope for my future. Lydia Banton Indianapolis, Indiana

The on-boarding assessment experience we had with Jeremy was regulating throughout in what could have been a stressful experience. Jeremy pointed us to coaching with Adam especially since we have been going to therapy for over more than a decade. We each dove deep into our individual inner experience of the attachment assessment, asked many questions successfully navigated by Jeremy, to then finding our way much more curious into this process of healing our attachment. After digesting the information and a few sessions we reached more clarity to say yes. We completed the on-boarding process with more hope than we had knowing that the insecure attachment is not fixed. Thank you Jeremy for such a positive, welcoming experience and onto our way with scheduling time with Adam.

I discovered Adam Lane Smith during one of the toughest times in my life. After a very painful breakup with my avoidant ex, (We were engaged) I felt completely lost. I was caught in my anxious attachment patterns, desperately trying to make sense of everything. I came across one of his videos on YouTube, and it was like a light turned on. I also started listening to his "I Wish You Knew" podcast, and for the first time, I started finding the closure I knew I'd never get from my ex. His explanations just clicked for me. He's incredibly professional, and as someone in the medical field myself, I really appreciate how clearly he breaks things down. He gets straight to the point and explains the 'why' behind everything, which is exactly what I needed to recognise my own patterns and finally start to heal. I was so impressed that I enrolled in his "How to Build a Secure Marriage" course when I was ready for a new relationship. This course gave me the practical tools I was missing. Other resources felt vague, but Adam's course has a clear, day-by-day structure. The 15-20 minute daily lessons were easy to follow and the role-playing examples were a game-changer—they actually showed us how to have a productive conversation instead of just telling us to "communicate better." The biggest thing I've taken away is knowing how to effectively talk about issues without it turning into an argument. I'm just so glad I found Adam's work. His approach is fantastic and he's helping so many people truly understand themselves and their relationships. This course provided the roadmap I wish I'd had years ago. If you're feeling stuck or want to build a truly secure relationship, I can't recommend it enough. Thanks, Adam and his team.