3 Second Rule CoachingReviews of 3secondrule.com

Shaun has truly taken my cold approach game to the next level! Prior to joining, I would constantly freeze up/self-eject during approaches. 3SR gave me practical routines and drills that helped me push through my sticking points, and I finally feel like I’m able to have fun while going out. Can't recommend them enough!

Shaun Michael i s a Master of his Craft. His Blended Learning Style is combining theory with practice. I am especially impressed with his holistic approach to not only mastering the dating game, but also every other area of your life. If you want to save years of frustration and accelerate waaay beyond what you thought was possible this coaching is for you.

It all started from a simple invitation where we connected live, and that’s when I noticed a serious and dedicated man in this dating field, which honestly isn’t easy at all. A man who truly lives by his motto “Leave no man behind” and respects it deeply. And after joining the academy, I saw how much involvement and energy exists here day by day. It’s clear that you’re not just people talking theory, but people who genuinely care about the growth of the members and their real life situations.

I've been to a bootcamp last October and had ongoing support isnce then. The experience was life changing... I went from not being able to approach, procrastinating and wasting my life away to talking to over 10 attractive women in a day, and then more. 6 months later, and hundreds of reps in, I've evolved as a human being and for the first time in my life, experienced a genuine romantic relationship, several one-night stands and multiple dates where I seal the deal with at least a kiss. I've mentally gotten to the point where I can talk to anyone, anywhere at almost any time (unless I'm having a bad day) and I am reasonably confident even without alcohol. I built a network of wingmen since the bootcamp and have levelled up my social skills to become almost unrecognisable as the shy introvert I once was.

Most of these types of programs claim that their method is the only method and offer a book/DVD and maybe a Boot Camp. This offers so much more. While there is multiple boot camps offered, there is no book or DVD but rather a website with hundreds of articles not only on PUA specific things but also things like habits and self improvement. When you sign up, you were also now part of a community. This is nothing like a class a better term I think would be brotherhood. Not only is Sean very diligent and overly qualified to teach on this topic, but he make sure that his other instructors go through extensive training before they can do the same. The community and instructor qualifications/expertise are something I have never seen with any other company. If you’re wondering whether or not to join, set up a free call and somebody personally will have a talk with you.

Ultra experienced master coach, and mentoring programming covering both leadership, and personal branding. The frameworks and practices are clear and fundamental to personal and professional development.

What I found most valuable What I appreciated most about the call was the clarity Shaun brought to where my game sticking points actually are. His explanation of the phases of attraction → connection → seduction helped me understand why many standard routines and escalation techniques weren’t landing for me, and why I often default to reacting rather than leading emotionally. In particular, the emphasis on slowing down after initial attraction, making intent explicit, and actually spending time with a woman before attempting to escalate was very grounding for me. It validated something I had already been experiencing intuitively but hadn’t been able to articulate clearly. I also appreciated the non-judgmental way burnout and emotional overwhelm were addressed. The conversation felt human rather than purely tactical, which helped me reflect more honestly on what kind of dating approach is sustainable for me long-term. What the company is doing right The biggest strength of Shaun’s coaching is his ability to diagnose why certain approaches work for some men and not for others, rather than assuming one-size-fits-all solutions. His willingness to acknowledge emotional pacing, nervous system differences, and burnout is something I don’t see often in this space. I also appreciated the openness and transparency around future offerings and the absence of pressure during the call itself. The coaching felt thoughtful and experience-based rather than purely scripted. Overall, the experience helped me reframe my challenges in a way that felt constructive and aligned with my personal development rather than adding more pressure to perform.

I've been impressed with the quality of the members who candidly share about their real world successes & failures. Shaun critique's them,mixed in with some Aussie humor. It's enjoyable and time flies as we improve our techniques & delivery.