AsiaMeReviews of asiame.com

I have frequented Asiame.com for almost 3 years now. I have chatted with and written letters to dozens of beautiful Chinese profiles during that time. If you are familiar with this website, you might understand that I have spent thousands of dollars over this time and honestly have not gotten a thing from it other than frustration and a bunch of pictures. As mentioned in other reviews here, it is addictive and I am currently trying to overcome that and finally walk away. I am a senior citizen and have been married and divorced twice. Once to a Chinese national and I have been looking to replace that with a new Chinese love. I found this site and the selection is vast and the women are beautiful and aggressive in their communications. Aggressive in reaching out unsolicited to you through the “Admirer Mail” as well as chat invitations. Despite obvious red flags I have remained “friends” to a few women, but I am always looking for the one who will make my dream come true. I am hooked to the chat as anything goes there and it often fulfills a fantasy for me. I say this because most every woman I contact through chat, regardless of age, steer me into a perverted conversation within the first 15 minutes of time. I do not know if my profile has notes on it that are available for the woman to read and play upon, but they always seem to pick up on the same sexual themes within a few minutes. Over time, I have developed certain preferences with these women that they are all too happy to oblige and interact with. I have speculated that there is a call center where these chats and email come from and that they simple feed off the last representative’s notes to create a fetish filled conversation that keeps me coming back. Other reviews here have mentioned similar theories. Most contacts will try to send pictures right away and question you as to how they look in the picture or outright lie about its content, just to get you to download it. As mentioned in other reviews here, the cost is prohibitive. At the low end, 3 credits are $21 US. To download a picture from chat is 1.5 credits or $10.50 each. Videos are 2.5 credits or $17.50 to view. Over time the women will learn that you do not download pictures and will stop but the new ones are pushy about it. A thing I have noticed lately, which just began, is that some women will stay active all the time. You do not really know if they are there or unavailable but with their accounts active. When you attempt a chat with them, the site used to just stay dormant and you could leave without occurring a charge. Now, the chats are systematically answered with a “hello” or “let me see your picture” which initiates the chat from the woman’s end and incurs a .5 credit charge on your balance, or $3.50. No active woman is there, it is just the system faking it so it can charge you. I complained about this and the helpdesk danced around it and refunded me 2 credits but never did address the issue. I have gone to the extent of buying the personal email of women from the site which you can do after fulfilling an EMF letter writing requirement of 10 letters and also having the woman agree to it. In each case, that communication lasted about 6 emails before they stopped writing. One said her personal email was blocked, another asked for gifts in exchange for emails. Email is not the answer to communicating with the women on this site. Telephone calls are not either. As the man, you are required to buy credits to cover your telephone call set-up and time. You are also on the hook for any long-distance charges your own telephone company charged to Hong Kong. The call quality is usually poor, and the women are simply not able to understand you or are purposely ignorant of English language or email address formatting. I also wonder if they are compensated for the chat time, pictures & videos, phone calls, gifts and EMF letters they generate with you as they certainly seem to be loyal to the website and its rules and even promote them. They are active to lead you on about purchasing their email contact, but it quickly falls apart once you pay. I have a QQ email account, which is Chinese based, so the email method should not present an issue for these women. In closing, it has been a struggle for me to give this website interaction up despite all that I have written here and lived through. I believe that Asiame.com serves more as a chat service than it does as a dating service. Not once have I been seriously invited by any of the women to visit them in their city. Certainly, there is the come-on to be with them, support them and pleasure them but I’ve not been asked about my hometown, my house or my family. It is a very one-way service, but I have used it, at a high price, to fulfill some of my own fantasies and fetishes. I believe that this review will help me finally walk away for good.

TOTAL SCAM. Asiame is a money scam. I found a way to prove that they are a scam. I sent paid emails "asking" the women I had been communicating with, "if" they wanted to continue communicating off site. The question was embedded in the middle of the email. I asked "if" they wanted to continue our established relationship on a different platform, like Outlook or Google email. Not one ever responded back to my offer. Well that said it all. Typical Chinese mind set when it comes to doing business. No professionalism, no scruples, no moral high ground. Just do what ever it takes to scam the money out of everyone so they can drive high dollar cars and by expensive mansions.

Well - my first red flag was the highly professional photographs, along with a lot of obvious air-brushing. It may or may not be the case that the ladies are genuine (or not) since without direct meeting, nigh impossible to attain at the moment (corona lockdown), you can't tell if you are talking to a live lady or a clone (a clone being someone employed to respond to you. I also noticed when I put a 'chat' response in, which did not go through due to lack of credits, I would still get a response or a follow-up. Red Flag 2. OK, says me - I'll hold out until I accept the low price offer for two credits, send emails to a couple of ladies I like, and see what happens. Reply all right - but no credit to unlock and view - and at $8US to open an email and then again $8 to send one back - chasing that lady becomes awfully costly - considering that I could take a membership in other reputable sites for a month for, say $30-40, and have unlimited access for that month. I say NO!! Don't go near it unless you are happy to spend hundreds just trying to chat up a lady you like in photographs. Only a fool would take that up - and I am neither rich nor a fool.

Things have changed a lot in 10 years between the West and China, but I see the Chinese scam dating sites have not, based on reading reviews here--it's the same game, exactly. The same business model as long ago, when I woke up one day from the nightmare of what was really going on. The scam sites like this all have a similar idea. Throw images of beautiful women at you, then get your money. The local agencies have employees who each pretend to be multiple gorgeous women, you can easily spend thousands of dollars talking to what could even be a guy. Ironically, after much travel in China, I actually met two people who worked at such agencies. They both were women, not attractive at all, and they told me in great detail how the scam system works. They would sit in their office all day, pretending to be 5 to 8 fake women. They got paid based on how much translating and chatting was done each week. I became a friend to one of them, who suffered for some years after she quit, out of guilt of what she did to many easily conned old men. Especially today, with very good machine translation, you can easily get on legitimate websites (there are many) where there will be competition for the very attractive women, of course, and where you can exchange contact information without nonsense if both parties want to. Back 10 years ago, machine translation was not usable, but it now works very well for getting acquainted. My memory about this is bitter, which is why I just took a look after all these years, and decided to write to make others aware. Best wishes.

This site is nothing but a scam and money grab, you are charged for everything, you cannot exchange any personal contact details at all. I chatted to one lady (happy to supply her asiame id if anyone wants it) on EMF mail and phone calls, at considerable expense over a period of time, however I found the ‘real’ person elsewhere, and actually called her directly. She confirmed my fear, that I had been talking to a fake on asiame, in fact an employee/agent of asiame.......... the site needs to be closed, women fake interest in you, you ever notice how you get a 100% success rate? So not real, this site is all about emptying your bank account. Guys, learn from my mistake and avoid at all costs, and don’t get ripped off, anyone posting a positive review here is totally deluded, or employed by asiame, and will find out the hard and expensive way......be warned!

Scam. Signed up in 2016, had a few ladies in my favorites, went back now 2020 same ladies are still on line with same profile. So in 4 years these absolutely young beautiful ladies found no one LOL.

I have spent a lot of money trying to connect and after many crashed relationships ( sending duplicate letters , or not wanting to meet ) pictures that so not match from one to the next ( eye color different etc.) This site is just a scam to line their pockets with American money. Maybe they have had 50 follow up relationships that really work . That is not much for what you pay.

This is a terrible site. Steer well clear. Although they have apparently lots of eager girls.. most are probably fake and employed by the company to get you to buy more "credits" You cannot even if you wanto get in direct contact with a girl as they censor all email addresses and make it virtually impossible to contact directly and even if you did the ID;s are largely fake. So avoid at all cost and find a responsible site.