Adam Lane SmithReviews of adamlanesmith.com

I have been more than pleased with the coaching that has been provided. I have bi-monthly sessions with Jeremy and he has opened my eyes to parts of myself I hadn't explored. He also provides me with challenging (sometimes uncomfortable) homework that I can see the value in. I have seen growth in areas that I never realized I struggled with previously. The group coaching and repair calls that Adam hosts are amazing. I learn things about my nature and how to deal with struggles like setting boundaries, developing lasting friendships and effectively communicating (to name a few). This team is giving me the skills and tools I need to develop to have attached relationships in the future. The library of recordings is a bonus. You can view different topics and listen to his recordings at anytime. I find myself being drawn to and wanting to listen as I get so much out of them. I couldn't be more pleased with my decision to invest in my future happiness and well being with this team. Finding Adam on YouTube videos started this journey and I can't wait to see my transformation in the end.

My husband and I both come from significant developmental trauma. He is predominantly avoidant and I am predominantly disorganized. Our 17 years together have amounted to disillusionment, despair and devastating loss of hope in spite of our good will and love for one another. Our children have suffered significantly as a result. Yet, we keep trying. Two weeks ago, I first came upon Adam’s material. After watching the chapters “Avoidant Husband” through “The Menu” from his interview with Lila Rose I felt hope that I did not know was possible. I have long been convinced of attachment theory and of the relational neurosciences, but of all the phenomenal professionals that I have encountered, none give a road map for repairing attachment trauma like Adam does. Neither my husband nor I have ever in our lives witnessed an emotionally secure marriage. In our Western emotionally numbed culture, even the best of the marriages that we know fearfully (and often unconsciously) set the right brain as emissary to the left brain when in fact it ought to be master. As a result, we live in a society where there is little to no depth of emotional honesty, expression and processing. But Adam presents life, relationship and marriage in full emotional and neurochemical colour, as God designed it to be. I want for myself and for my husband the picture that Adam paints for marriage from filial to eros to agape love. We have yet to be privileged to access any of Adam's programs or coaching, but I can tell that I am already neurochemically changed for the hope that he has instilled in my husband and I and with that hope I can tell that we are already better. Thank you Adam and team. God bless you. By your work you are healing humanity and bringing man and woman to their full created potential. God willing, we will be able to afford and come to agreement over receiving your help. Be sure of another review when that happens. I can only hope.

Not sure what started the trail to Adam's programs, but I was in rough place looking for some new answers. I'm in my 50s, and I've had great success professionally and have amazing friendships and family. I was at my breaking point and exhausted from giving too much and not getting what I needed repeatedly. I had a long term failed marriage where I learned the hard way about toxic people and gave myself time and deep work to heal for several years before trying again. After 6 years into a relationship with a great man (who I now know is ethically avoidant) we were facing issues I didn't understand or able to resolve despite our best efforts. I started small watching Adam's YouTube videos. I've been to therapy, and marriage counseling for years. I've done so much personal development over decades. I'd never heard or learned about attachment styles, but I quickly learned how it impacts all your relationships, and most importantly you! I then bought the two bootcamp courses because I realized I was with an avoidant man and wanted to increase my abilities to overcome my own attachment style. Incredible programs! I decided I needed more individual help to unravel my issues and become the best version of myself even if it meant shedding my current relationship (which I truly did not want to leave). Little did I know that investing in myself and crossing paths with Adam's work and Alyssa 1:1 would change my life quickly in the best possible and astounding way. I'm in week 8 of the 1:1 bi-weekly coaching, and everything has shifted for me. Alyssa is sweet, caring, generous, and brilliant at what she does. She saw that I had quiet disorganized attachment and helped me really understand deeply why and how. We immediately tackled the root cause of regulating myself in a way that fit me. She directed me to Adam's videos on quiet disorganized women, and I wept through them in week 1. No one has ever seen me and described me internally, but Adam and Alyssa nailed it. It's been life changing, and my relationship has transformed in front of my eyes in just a few weeks. I am SO much calmer and happy across my life. Learning about attachment in a healthy way for yourself is truly the missing piece in healing forward and becoming the best version of you which is mirrored in all your relationships. Yes it's an investment. Worth every bit and more. I spent way more in therapy over the years and not had results like this. This is the real deal. Life is too short to keep repeating mistakes, and now you have an incredible expert professional team that gets it, is protective, caring, understands you and will guide you in a way that works for you. One comment on the group coaching is that the first few weeks it was overwhelming with the structure in place, but Adam and team proactively made swift adjustments. I now love the Adam foundation talks and Alyssa’s weekly women's groups. I keep learning and growing. Huge light bulbs continue to go off! The bi-weekly 1:1s are something I look forward to and am so grateful to Alyssa for the incredible direction my life has already changed. I wish I had known this 25 years ago, but it’s never too late, and I am eternally grateful to Alyssa, Adam and Lukas (who said Alyssa would be perfect for me and she is!). Thank you for your gifts to heal humanity through earned secure relationships. If you are on the fence and need a nudge, jump over, invest in yourself, and watch your life change.

I cannot speak highly enough of Adam, his team and the life altering knowledge they share and the level of compassion and care that they share it with. I haven’t been part of the program long, but it’s already changed me significantly in how I approach all relationships in my life and I am committed to staying as long as I can to become securely attached and settled in a beautiful marriage. Adam and Alyssa (haven’t worked with Jeremy yet) are prime examples of people doing what they are meant to be doing in life, living their purpose. Forever grateful I found Adam on YouTube and decided to invest in myself and my future this way. My only regret is not having found him sooner. But I suppose it’s like they say.. when the student is ready, the teacher appears. Thank you Adam, Alyssa, Jeremy & Lucas for eveything ❤️

I have found that working , my attachment repair coach, Jeremy, and with adam during the group attachment repair program, as well as his more intensive group , invaluable in my work with those suffering from various addictions and mental health issues. I have developed more personal skills and skills and shared many.

I worked with Jeremy for about 4 months and he was very helpful. He was honest and direct with me regarding my needs and areas to work on. This was very different than past therapy I had and would highly recommend his coaching.

I spoke with Adam 10 times over the course of a year and a half. To say the experience was life changing is a substantial understatement. Adam's perspective and expertise couple together to provide wisdom that anyone on the planet would take immense value from. The patience, guidance and respect shown by Adam is a testament to him as a man. If you have the opportunity to talk to him, it must be taken.

Adam provided tools that I did not know existed. His advice is empowering