Adam Lane SmithReviews of adamlanesmith.com

My husband found Adam on YouTube when we were going through a rough time in our Marriage...disconnected, sad, and not knowing really why or how to connect again. We started the attachment repair program with Alyssa in December and each session brought us closer together, helping us learn how to work together and to be truly open and vulnerable with each other. It was completely transformative and we are now more deeply bonded than ever before. I thank God for Alyssa and Adam, and pray more people are able to also have their lives transformed the way we have!

I'm so grateful I found Adam and everything he's built through this program. It has truly been life changing, and I can't thank him enough for creating a place where people can receive this kind of support. I also can't say enough good things about my coach, Ms Irina. From day one she created a safe, judgment free space where I felt comfortable being honest about my struggles. Her kindness and compassion made it easy to open up. What I'm most grateful for are the tools she gave me. The advice, strategies, and exercises she taught me are things I'll use for the rest of my life. I still remember her telling me this would be hard work, but that if I stayed consistent, I would persevere. She was right. Through my coaching guidance, I came to better understand how my brain processes things, which helped me stop being so critical myself and show myself more grace. That understanding has helped me become a more present wife and mother. Thank you, Adam, for creating this program and building such an incredible team, and thank you, Ms. Irina, for your kindness, honesty, and encouragement. I'll always be grateful for the impact you've had on my life. God bless you all

Adam and his team make great things happen. I appreciate their help guiding me to the program right for me. I appreciate their follow-through. I appreciate being given specific things to do. I detest “talking about challenges, which is another reason why I appreciate being given tasks and ways to re-route my nervous system. Thank you, Adam, Irina, Mathieu, and Skye for your help!

This was an eye opening experience for my wife and I of 15yrs married. We came from childhood friends, had a strong foundation. Life just gets in the way of how to keep the relationship from turning into roommates. Adam lanes crew provided the tools and skillset that absolutely saved our marriage. I know the price is steep for most of us, but worth every penny in the end. If the love and willingness to improve your relationship is there on both sides, do it!

I was very happy with the coaching, lessons, group calls, and other resources provided. I learned so much from this program, and would be happy to recommend it to others. I'm sure I'm not the first to say that I wish I'd done this sooner, but I'm glad did finally find this resource. As a married man in his 60s, I would encourage anyone considering this program, younger or older, to give this a try. It's not too late, and certainly not too early to make a change for the better.

I spent about a year exploring Adam’s materials before deciding to take the leap. I was hopeful but a little skeptical. I’d benefited from other forms of personal development before, lacked the skill and awareness to identify and break the unhealthy patterns that kept tripping me up. Working with Irina changed that! The biggest gift was clarity, not only understanding what dysregulates me, but knowing exactly what to do when it happens. Being able to apply the tools in real life, reflect on them, and receive her feedback helped me continually ask, “How would a secure person respond?” Irina balanced warmth with structure and wasn’t afraid to challenge me when needed, which I deeply appreciated. One unexpected outcome was rediscovering my femininity and strengthening my relationship with God. Irina also recommended The Queen’s Code (life-changing!), and together with the coaching materials, I gained a perspective that has positively influenced both my personal growth and the way I approach future relationships and, God willing, a future spouse! I’m definitely still on the journey of being remade secure, but I feel far more hopeful, equipped, and determined than before. If you're contemplating whether to take the leap, trust yourself and do it🔥 You will be surprised by the person you become on the other side. A heartfelt thank you to Adam, Jeremy, and especially Irina for guiding me through this process. I’m forever grateful and look forward to keeping in touch and connecting with the team in the future!

I joined this program feeling genuinely lost about my attachment style. I knew something wasn't working in how I showed up in relationships, but I couldn't put my finger on what. The intake assessment helped identify that I lean toward quiet disorganised attachment, and that was a real relief. It finally explained why I'd always felt like I had both avoidant and anxious tendencies at the same time, and never quite fit neatly into either. Irina was my coach for the three months, and I can't say enough good things about her. She brings her own experience to the work, which makes such a difference — it never feels like she's reading from a script. She's warm, completely non-judgmental, and great at giving you tools you can actually use outside of sessions. I always left feeling like I had something concrete to work with. The work on nervous system regulation and conflict resolution was a real game-changer for me. These weren't just concepts to think about — they gave me ways to actually handle things differently in the moment. I actively practice these skills with my family and friends now, and I can feel the difference in how those relationships are going. Over the course of the program, I noticed real shifts: in how I understand my patterns, how I relate to people, and how I respond when things get hard. If I had one suggestion, it would be to increase the 1-on-1 sessions beyond 6 — the work goes deep, and a little more dedicated time would go a long way. The program also includes a group component, which I liked in theory, but attendance was inconsistent so it didn't always deliver on its potential. Hopefully, that improves as the community grows. If budget weren't a factor, I'd honestly keep going — there's more I'd love to work through with them. If you've been going in circles in therapy, keep bumping into the same relationship dynamics, or just feel confused about why you do what you do — this program is worth it.

I worked with Irina, who was wonderful! She was a perfect blend of professional and personal. I could tell she really cared about me and wanted to help me grow. She made sure our calls were focused and that I learned skills that were applicable to my situation. I appreciate how she came to each call with a plan, but was quick to flex if it became clear I would benefit from something other than what she had planned. She would always promptly send me handouts after our sessions, so that I could apply the skills on my own and also so that I could focus on interaction (rather than notetaking) during our sessions. Beyond meetings with Irina, I also found the plethora of resources available at Adam's website very helpful. Overall, a fantastic and enriching experience!